yourspiritangel: let me introduce you to my friend....he is bright & witty...has a great personality...a very sexy smile...so caring of others...good with his kids....so caring of the ones in his household...giving of his all....seems to know what is important in life...very nice looking man...a hunk bod... i am not sure how he is on yardwaork lol
SirwLove: can I tell you
yourspiritangel: he has so much to offer...to himself lol
SirwLove: friday night before she left
SirwLove: I said I would cut the grass when I got home from baseball Saturday
SirwLove: she had Randy cut it ... on Saturday morning after I left to go play
SirwLove: that really hurt for some reason
SirwLove: worse than the fact that he's fucking her
yourspiritangel: he invaded your space
SirwLove: and she had no clue that I would be hurt
yourspiritangel: worst of all she allowed him to invade your space
SirwLove: or maybe she didSirwLove: she told me that it hurt her to have nikki here
that I let nikki spend one night ...alone mind you... in her bed
SirwLove: that nikki was on her computer and in her fridge
well fuck...venita left
and I needed nikki to watch the boys
SirwLove: and she bought us foodSirwLove: so yes...she got to be in the fridge
SirwLove: and further...venita has been with randy now 7 different times
SirwLove: I have seen nikki 3 times
SirwLove: and it been me REACTING to her affair
SirwLove: never me starting it
SirwLove: even before I go I beg her to stop all this
yourspiritangel: *listens
SirwLove: so venita says I hurt her with nikki invading her space but she was polite about it and she expects me to be polite now about randy... HONESTLY she said that
yourspiritangel: i can imagine her doing that
SirwLove: she creates all this chaos ....so no one knows what to say or how to get her to come to her senses
yourspiritangel: and that is not even on a list to do
yourspiritangel: she has no senses right now
SirwLove: is like firemen arriving to put out a fire and her starting lil fires in the street to distract them
SirwLove: to distract from the money probs...and her eating and throwing up daily problem
yourspiritangel: go buy a big red bow
SirwLove: and arrow?
yourspiritangel: no
SirwLove: to shoot her?
yourspiritangel: just a bow
SirwLove: damn
yourspiritangel: big red pretty bow
SirwLove: was gonna do that idea
SirwLove: lol listens
yourspiritangel: and wrapt it around her...and hand her to Randy...and please tell him ....good luck
yourspiritangel: best wishes
SirwLove: she doesn't want him
SirwLove: she's just using him
SirwLove: like she is using me
yourspiritangel: sorry....but with all indications....she does
SirwLove: we are both stupid
SirwLove: she wants only mario
yourspiritangel: no you are not
yourspiritangel: let her go get Mario...Randy....Albert....Dave....Roger...whoever....let her keep fucking and running in her life....you are much better than that
SirwLove: so my boys will end up hating mom and I can stop that train wreck
yourspiritangel: that is problemyourspiritangel: you have no control over what your boys will think
SirwLove: and that will fuck up their lives
yourspiritangel: self survival...
yourspiritangel: no it wont
SirwLove: it fucked me up to see what my parents did
it fucks with everyone
SirwLove: it affects how you make choices
SirwLove: my bad choices come from what happened in my home growing up
yourspiritangel: so it wont fuck up their lives to see what she is doing when they get older....and then to see you allow it?
SirwLove: I have felt I had a window of opportunity to get her to come to her sensesSirwLove: before they are damaged
SirwLove: I think that window will close in the next yearyourspiritangel: fuck your past...its gone...you have to make the best of your life NOW....and for the boys...and you are very capable of givng them the best you can....
SirwLove: and it won't matter...
yourspiritangel: what window?
SirwLove: have felt I had a window of opportunity to get her to come to her senses
SirwLove: before they are damaged
yourspiritangel: let them live with reality
SirwLove: yes and then they can have fucked up relationships too ...this is not a family
yourspiritangel: dont try and shelter them...they will grow up and not know how to handle a situation similar
SirwLove: this will just continue the crap generation after generation
yourspiritangel: no
SirwLove: it has to stop now
yourspiritangel: at least they will know to walk away when they have been abused by their spouse...
SirwLove: okay I hear your point
yourspiritangel: and i am not saying divorce is good.....
but what they are learning is that its okay to neglect Dad....he takes it....Mom does what she wants with whomever she wants...
you are V's lifeline....esp with money...she could not make it without you...
yourspiritangel: you have a much better poker hand than you know i am sorry i will shut up now
SirwLove: shutting up is not the answer...lol my poker hand is better than I know?
yourspiritangel: yes it is i would rather have yours than hers
Andrew....was talking so good and positive....and was taking control of things in his life...with Kiska gone...he sat one night and talked with his 4 yr old and all the walls he had built came tumbbling down because of the words...."I want you to live here with Mommy"....
SirwLove: right.... ty for understanding how hard it is when the boys tell me to keep trying
yourspiritangel: my defence was....yes all children want to live with their mommys & daddys...but to keep a child in an abusive situation...is more harmful to them...and himself and for Kiska... kids always want McDonalds too...but you know there are times they cant have it....so why the double standard?
SirwLove: okay SirwLove: yes
yourspiritangel: im sorry
SirwLove: its hard to dissappoint your kids
yourspiritangel: i get so fucking pissed too but dont think of it as a dissappointment....think of it as a change for the good for them their dad will be a better person on the inside for them
and they wont have to be dissappoinmted when you try so hard and they see her not respond to you...it dissappoints them too
lets change the subject please
"Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be... it's easy! All you need is LOVE!"
SirwLove: can I tell you
yourspiritangel: he has so much to offer...to himself lol
SirwLove: friday night before she left
SirwLove: I said I would cut the grass when I got home from baseball Saturday
SirwLove: she had Randy cut it ... on Saturday morning after I left to go play
SirwLove: that really hurt for some reason
SirwLove: worse than the fact that he's fucking her
yourspiritangel: he invaded your space
SirwLove: and she had no clue that I would be hurt
yourspiritangel: worst of all she allowed him to invade your space
SirwLove: or maybe she didSirwLove: she told me that it hurt her to have nikki here
that I let nikki spend one night ...alone mind you... in her bed
SirwLove: that nikki was on her computer and in her fridge
well fuck...venita left
and I needed nikki to watch the boys
SirwLove: and she bought us foodSirwLove: so yes...she got to be in the fridge
SirwLove: and further...venita has been with randy now 7 different times
SirwLove: I have seen nikki 3 times
SirwLove: and it been me REACTING to her affair
SirwLove: never me starting it
SirwLove: even before I go I beg her to stop all this
yourspiritangel: *listens
SirwLove: so venita says I hurt her with nikki invading her space but she was polite about it and she expects me to be polite now about randy... HONESTLY she said that
yourspiritangel: i can imagine her doing that
SirwLove: she creates all this chaos ....so no one knows what to say or how to get her to come to her senses
yourspiritangel: and that is not even on a list to do
yourspiritangel: she has no senses right now
SirwLove: is like firemen arriving to put out a fire and her starting lil fires in the street to distract them
SirwLove: to distract from the money probs...and her eating and throwing up daily problem
yourspiritangel: go buy a big red bow
SirwLove: and arrow?
yourspiritangel: no
SirwLove: to shoot her?
yourspiritangel: just a bow
SirwLove: damn
yourspiritangel: big red pretty bow
SirwLove: was gonna do that idea
SirwLove: lol listens
yourspiritangel: and wrapt it around her...and hand her to Randy...and please tell him ....good luck
yourspiritangel: best wishes
SirwLove: she doesn't want him
SirwLove: she's just using him
SirwLove: like she is using me
yourspiritangel: sorry....but with all indications....she does
SirwLove: we are both stupid
SirwLove: she wants only mario
yourspiritangel: no you are not
yourspiritangel: let her go get Mario...Randy....Albert....Dave....Roger...whoever....let her keep fucking and running in her life....you are much better than that
SirwLove: so my boys will end up hating mom and I can stop that train wreck
yourspiritangel: that is problemyourspiritangel: you have no control over what your boys will think
SirwLove: and that will fuck up their lives
yourspiritangel: self survival...
yourspiritangel: no it wont
SirwLove: it fucked me up to see what my parents did
it fucks with everyone
SirwLove: it affects how you make choices
SirwLove: my bad choices come from what happened in my home growing up
yourspiritangel: so it wont fuck up their lives to see what she is doing when they get older....and then to see you allow it?
SirwLove: I have felt I had a window of opportunity to get her to come to her sensesSirwLove: before they are damaged
SirwLove: I think that window will close in the next yearyourspiritangel: fuck your past...its gone...you have to make the best of your life NOW....and for the boys...and you are very capable of givng them the best you can....
SirwLove: and it won't matter...
yourspiritangel: what window?
SirwLove: have felt I had a window of opportunity to get her to come to her senses
SirwLove: before they are damaged
yourspiritangel: let them live with reality
SirwLove: yes and then they can have fucked up relationships too ...this is not a family
yourspiritangel: dont try and shelter them...they will grow up and not know how to handle a situation similar
SirwLove: this will just continue the crap generation after generation
yourspiritangel: no
SirwLove: it has to stop now
yourspiritangel: at least they will know to walk away when they have been abused by their spouse...
SirwLove: okay I hear your point
yourspiritangel: and i am not saying divorce is good.....
but what they are learning is that its okay to neglect Dad....he takes it....Mom does what she wants with whomever she wants...
you are V's lifeline....esp with money...she could not make it without you...
yourspiritangel: you have a much better poker hand than you know i am sorry i will shut up now
SirwLove: shutting up is not the answer...lol my poker hand is better than I know?
yourspiritangel: yes it is i would rather have yours than hers
Andrew....was talking so good and positive....and was taking control of things in his life...with Kiska gone...he sat one night and talked with his 4 yr old and all the walls he had built came tumbbling down because of the words...."I want you to live here with Mommy"....
SirwLove: right.... ty for understanding how hard it is when the boys tell me to keep trying
yourspiritangel: my defence was....yes all children want to live with their mommys & daddys...but to keep a child in an abusive situation...is more harmful to them...and himself and for Kiska... kids always want McDonalds too...but you know there are times they cant have it....so why the double standard?
SirwLove: okay SirwLove: yes
yourspiritangel: im sorry
SirwLove: its hard to dissappoint your kids
yourspiritangel: i get so fucking pissed too but dont think of it as a dissappointment....think of it as a change for the good for them their dad will be a better person on the inside for them
and they wont have to be dissappoinmted when you try so hard and they see her not respond to you...it dissappoints them too
lets change the subject please
"Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be... it's easy! All you need is LOVE!"
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