Saturday, November 19, 2005

about being an on line Dom...

catherinenaughty: yes, online slaves? love to hear about that sometime
SirwLove: I would make time for you ask anytime

SirwLove: I have one collared slave .... (snail) she's in toronto area known her 2 yrs online met her a year ago... we've gotten together several times this past year . But at msn I also have had something I called Sir's Stable... and have had times when I was training and enjoying several girls as on line slaves

catherinenaughty: boggles the mind
SirwLove: I'm good at what I do
catherinenaughty: it's me i guess, how does one serve online?
SirwLove: but we all have our issues ...no life is perfect

SirwLove: I'm not so interested in cyber play - I mean a real kiss is always better than a cyber smooch
catherinenaughty: i see

SirwLove: however in 5 yrs I've come up with some creative Domination on line

SirwLove: bottom line is this...

catherinenaughty: nods, okay

SirwLove: the Dom has to come from the point of view of this the ONLY real power on line that I have - is to leave

SirwLove: ignore

catherinenaughty: i see

SirwLove: until she submits / agrees

SirwLove: now I'm a writer

SirwLove: so I don't detest cyber sex typing

SirwLove: if its well done creative

SirwLove: but I'm not gonna be doing all the typing LOL

SirwLove: and that's how cyber crap usually ends up

SirwLove: my on line deal is more like...

SirwLove: I direct you

catherinenaughty: i see

SirwLove: give you instructions

SirwLove: you do as I say

SirwLove: it involves some self bondage and self spanking and such

catherinenaughty: i see

SirwLove: it involves learning your place... and a proper attitude and practicing it in convos with me online - it can involve tasks or assignments and reporting back on them

catherinenaughty: i see

SirwLove: this past week my slave had to go buy a butt plug and use it

catherinenaughty: ok i begin to see

SirwLove: it can also involve cam or phone ...but that's not a must

SirwLove: I have basic requirements etc for the slave at each stage of "training" with the goal being eventually to meet

SirwLove: some require a slow track others want a faster pace I think of myself like a Dom/shrink- you come see me when you NEED to surrender

catherinenaughty: lol - i see

SirwLove: for that hour or 2 each week - some need more others 1 time a month is enough - but in this sense I become the "permission giver" for "her/slaves" release to be "bad"

SirwLove: now - honestly One can't KNOW for sure

catherinenaughty: nods

SirwLove: if a girl is doing as she is told or if she's lying

SirwLove: "yes sir I spanked my pussy 20 times for you as you ordered"

SirwLove: who knowsSirwLove: but BEFORE I get into play

SirwLove: and training

SirwLove: I try my best to determine how truthful a person is being

SirwLove: those that like to fantasize only and cyber only

catherinenaughty: i see

SirwLove: are less interesting to me

SirwLove: go read a story

SirwLove: etc

SirwLove: I want submission

SirwLove: I want her wet


SirwLove: I want her embarrassed and blushing at her computer

SirwLove: many times


SirwLove: I will make the slave push back her chair and kneel at the computer

catherinenaughty: ok i got it

SirwLove: she has to earn her chair by cumming on my command and only with my permission after begging for it

SirwLove: and she gets a humiliation name unique to her

SirwLove: the name she hates ...and loves all at once if you will

catherinenaughty: k

SirwLove: NOW ...most on line Dom/Dommes are not like this I assume...

SirwLove: but I started out in r/l

SirwLove: many years ago...and I crave making it as real as possible

SirwLove: so that's my deal

SirwLove: thanks for asking






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